HEALING FOR YOUR MARRIAGE

Marriage is like a building,it is meant to be built with a strong and solid foundation.
Just as a strong foundation makes a formidable building,likewise a good and proper foundation makes a lasting and enduring marriage.There's hope in Christ Jesus for a torn and broken marriage.

THE FOUNDATION OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE
Successful marriages has solid foundation.Jesus Christ,our Lord and Saviour is the only solid foundation for a meaninful life and marriage.You need Jesus in your home for the marriage to thrive.

Jesus is the solid Rock;the Rock of Ages,the Rock that never fails.Any man and any home without Christ Jesus experience crises.When you have Jesus,you have love,joy, peace,gentleness,long suffering,temperance(self control),faith and grace which are all bedrock for a blissful and a happy marriage.

God has a foundation on which He builds marriage and that foundation is love.This refers to the agape kind of love and not the sensual and emotional kind of love.This is the love that gives and gives and gives again and again.The sacrificial type of love.

FACTORS AFFECTING MARRIAGE UNION
Factors that militate against the success of many homes and marriage are outlined below.
There are forces of evil who dont want to see stable homes and marriages.A stable home glorifies God and make for a strong society and nation

*Lost of first love-The passing away of the initial love with time is the bane of a successful marriage.
*Neglect of God given responsibilities in the home.
*Unrestraint incurssion of third party in the home.This include interference from parents,friends,inlaws,confidants and even some so called counsellors.
*Delay in child bearing.
*Frustration and depression.
*Incompatibility.
*Financial mismanagement.
*Lack of sufficient fund and that of low income
*Infedelity and unfaithfulness.
*Debate and disagreement.
*Heated argument in the home.
*hatred,envy and jealousy.
*Greed and covetousness.
*Lack of contentment.
*Lack of courtesy and improper communication.
*Unforgiving spirit.
*Offences and misunderstanding.
*Sickness and diseases.
*Poverty and pernury.
*Immaturity of either of the partners.

REMEDY FOR A BROKEN MARRIAGE

Marriage is suppose to give happiness and fulfilment in life.God being the founder and builder of successful marriages is strongly and solidly behind the marriages of His children.

Invite Jesus in to your your heart and life by faith.Get in to a personal relationship with Jesus,receive Him as your personal Lord and Saviour.Then,He will forgive your sins and give you a new life for a new beginning and a new marriage.You can't really make it without Jesus.

*Renew your commitment to your marriage vows.Dont break the covenant.
*Readily forgive past offences.
*Be humble enough to say "Iam Sorry"
*Rebuild the family altar-the family that prays together stays together.
*Be open minded,let there be freedom of communication.
*Set a limit to third party involvement in your family affairs.
*Dont ever contemplate divorce,it is not the solution.
*Be faithful to your partner;one man one wife is the uniform teaching of the scriptures(the holy Bible).This is the will of God for man.
*Let there be love and submission one to another.

May your marriage be a blissful one,a heaven on earth in Jesus name-Amen